I’ll be the first to admit that Shooter Jr is not really “Junior.” He’s not a mini-Shooter or a cloned version of me, and his real name has nothing close to Junior in it. Admittedly, though, the Junior tag has grown with both of us ever since the GWC Indiana Jones podcast arc. But Shooter Jr has his own interests, his own personality, and his own preferences that are similar but separate from my own. Likewise, neither of the Shootettes will like every single thing that I find fun and interesting. However, as with any family, there are interests of mine that I’ve been passing along to the kids.
Actually, as a parent I believe it is my responsibility to pass along family knowledge as much as possible. It could be something general like the desire to try something new and not dismiss it out of hand. It could be something more immediate like teaching good study skills. It could be something thought-provoking like learning how to enjoy reading. It could be a lifelong outdoor skill like fishing, building a fire, hunting or gardening. It could be an amateur trade skill like how to use tools to fix, maintain or build something. It could be something necessary like how to care for a vehicle. It could be something mutually beneficial like how to care for animals. It could be a lifelong social coping skill, like how to play the office NCAA basketball pool, how to play cards, or how to act at a company office picnic. But I also believe it is just as important as all of the other things to pass along whatever I can of the Shooter family geek card.
My father passed everything unto me that I consider valued. To this day we enjoy doing some of those activities together like shooting, fishing, woodworking, logging, bike riding, ice skating, or watching hockey. Recently he came out to visit and we shared an opportunity to come up with a creative fix to my mother-in-law’s laundry-room/water softener drainage issue. We both enjoy watching and quoting John Wayne movies. Although he constantly threatened to send me to military school as I was growing up, his wish finally came through when I voluntarily applied and was accepted to the Air Force Academy.
But one of the most treasured activities my dad passed down to me is my geek card. He bought me my first gaming system. It was an Atari 2600 and Space Invaders was my favorite game. He bought me my first computer, a Commodore 64 with a 300 baud modem, and opened up my world to the early internet and bulletin board systems (BBS). He encouraged me to read. He introduced me to Comos on PBS and Star Trek: The Original Series in its early syndication days. He admits that his biggest regret as I was growing up was not sending me to Space Camp. And to this day we save watching the biggest SciFi hits of the holiday seasons on the big screen to when we see each other.
I’d say that the process of handing down new geeks cards to the Shooter kids really started a few years ago. Some of it involves just having cool tech like texting cell phones, iTouches, or iPods (Little Shootette is too young to have an iTouch, but just received a wireless enabled Nintendo DS i XL for her birthday). Some of it involves gaming on Playstation, the Wii, or Xbox. Some of it involves my encouragement to them to read and buying whatever books they want to read. Some of it involves maintaining a small home computer network for monitored internet access to the Shooter kids.
A lot of handing down Shooter family geek cards involves watching certain shows and movies together. Shooter Jr and Little Shootette love Stargate SG-1. Shootette loves Twilight and Terminator. Mrs. Shooter and the Shootettes love Glee. Mrs. Shooter thinks Chuck is adorable and watches it with Shooter Jr, Little Shootette and myself. Everyone loves Indiana Jones. But Shooter Jr and I are most often found together soaking up V, Burn Notice, Chuck, Big Bang Theory, Eureka, Warehouse 13, or Stargate Universe. That’s not even including the stacks of movies like Terminator, Star Trek, Transformers, Harry Potter, 2012, Back to the Future, Star Wars, Independence Day, Matrix, or Batman just to name a few.
In fact, one of Shooter Jr and my favorite shared memories involves a movie. Years ago we went to see Spiderman opening day. There was someone in a very good spiderman costume just outside the theater that Junior had his picture taken with. He was so excited about it. In fact, that picture is at the top of this article.
But passing down the family geek card isn’t just limited to cool technology, books, computer usage, TV shows, or movies. True geeks infiltrate “geekiness” into everyday life. Recently, the whole family started using the Big Bang Theory term “Bazinga.” The art of “Bazinga” isn’t necessarily as simple as it sounds, especially to an eight year old. However, Little Shootette mastered Bazinga on her first try without any prompts a few weeks ago by proceeding to argue with me, winning the argument, telling me I was wrong and then saying “BAZINGA!” I was so proud about that one I tweeted about it.
Not only are there geek aspects that I’ve been able to hand down to the kids, but in some aspects they can totally claim geek supremacy over me. For example, Shooter Jr can totally own me in the arena of computer gaming. Whether he is playing Dragon Age on the home computer or Halo on Xbox 360, I find myself woefully behind the times in being able to keep up. Not only do I find myself unable to beat him, I often need to use him as a tutor to help guide me when I do find the time to play. And before any of you GWCers decide to chastise me completely over this self-admitted deficiency, just remember someone has to spend time working to pay for all this cool tech, let alone a roof over our head. Unfortunately, gaming has been one area that has suffered over the years. I’m sure I’ll be able to catch back up with it as soon as I win the Powerball or Mega Millions.
However, Shooter Jr and I do make time for the current GWC arc. Junior has been introduced to more legacy SciFi and Fantasy in the past year and a half thanks to the GWC weekly podcast than he had probably seen in his entire life up to that point. The Lord of the Rings arc alone put a huge dent in what he has seen and read. Recently he ate up Conan, the original Tron, and on Chuck’s suggestion The Last Starfighter. Currently, we are in the process of watching Xena for the first time, and enjoying it. But most of all, we enjoy listening to the GWC cast together in the Shooter Family Truckster on the way to hockey, shopping, or other errands around town. But that is a story for another time.
Alas, there are shows that I watch that I have not been able to interest anyone else yet in the Shooter household. Dr. Who and Firefly are two that come to mind. But I’m confident that someone will find interest in one or both of them over time. They are just too good for someone not to like. There is always next time. There is also the eventual promise of two sons-in-laws, a daughter-in-law and however many Shooter grandkids we are blessed to have in the coming decades to hand down my geek card to.
Moreover, there are even aspects of my past that I haven’t even delved into with any of them, like gaming. Dungeons and Dragons, Car Wars, and Battletech were all part of my past. I’m sure I’ll get around to it eventually.
In the meantime, I’m just enjoying passing along the portions of my geek card that the kids are interested in. Pretty soon they will all earn full geek cards of their own. For now, the journey for the kids to earn the cards is a fun one we can all take together. Until next time…
You, sir, are made of OSSIM!!!
I’ve been geeking my Puddytat, too!
Ahhh the days when she’d start dancing to my Buffy ringtone. That she says “I feel peckish!” when hungry, due to a funny story shared by Claudia Black and Gigi Edgley at a con I went to, and then told her about.
Parental Geek Pride. I has it!
…and you, obviously, has it, too!
I’ve introducing KidsAZ to SCiFi films and culture since their birth. BrettAZ could hum the Star Wars theme at 18 months. In fact, SW is one of the few things from my childhood era the boys don’t think is completely lame (they hate most of the music HubAZ and I loved from the 80’s). It’s fun to watch them respond. They hated Wargames, but loved Red Dawn.
I’ve gone to a Firefly Con with BrettAZ and this year ConnerAZ & I will take Comic-Con by storm. I take my geek parenting very seriously.
DawnAZ: That’s awesome that Brett and Conner are into sharing SciFi with you. Unfortunately, there are aspects of any previous generation’s SciFi that is lame. Recently, I was watching some Space: 1999 up in Wisconsin on vacation and there are more than a few aspects of that show that don’t translate into a modern SciFi era. But it is fun to suspend all belief and emerse yourself into it. And a properly done reboot can bring any show up to speed with current technology and ways of thinking.
If anything else, Wargames does provide a historical link into the beginnings of computing and the internet. However, I can see how your boys had trouble with it. It is difficult to make a timeless SciFi movie full of technology after all.
Star Wars is special in that regard. The technology of the original movies is dated, but the place and time of the Star Wars Universe is so far removed from our own, and the technology used is masked so well that it is much easier to suspend belief while watching it.
The newer stuff is easier to share, like Iron Man and Transformers, because both parents and kids are seeing it at the same time, so there is virtually no technology-generation gap.
The key in all of it is to have fun. Otherwise, what’s the point?